The most amazing date with an incredible man :)

There is no way I can go without talking about our date. I have actually wanted to write about Ben in general. I love him...I really, really love him. We have been together for almost 12 years and married for almost 9! Remind you, I'm only 27. I barely remember a life without him. So many people said we would never make it. But here is why we do...why I love him so much.

EVERYTHING we do is as a team. We both raise our boys, we both clean the house and WE make decisions about what we do and want to try to do together. Ben has changed just as many diapers as I have, he does laundry, the dishes, I don't dust...he does. But this is just the start.

Ben continues to amaze me. I am a very emotionally needy person. I hate this about myself but it's true. I am insecure and get jealous very easily. While I feel like there are tons of reasons for this, it is still difficult to live with. He shows me how much he loves me. When I want to talk he does. Not saying we don't fight but we are open with eachother. We have both learned that the grass isn't greener on the other side. We are very compatible and really have a chance to be the happily ever after. Ben used to think that fairy tales were completely retarded. I think I have taught him that they can be real...you just have to know when to recognize them and fight with all you have to keep them.

With that said...on to our date. We have not left our boys since the Probowl. A night out was WAY past due. Ben first took me to the west coast. We went out on the rocks to sit and watch the sunset. It was so beautiful.

What made this even more amazing is that we got to watch a sea turtle swim around below us! The whole time we were there watching the sunset, a turtle kept popping up and swimming around. It was so fun to watch. Anytime one of us would get distracted, the other would spot him. I can't even begin to explain what those moments meant to me. The little booger was impossible to photograph though. We only had one of the small cameras of which has a LONG delay. So everytime we would try to take a picture he would dive back down. :(

This is the best picture we could get.

After the sunset we went to dinner at Roy's. It is located within the Ko'Olina Resort area. Very good! It is pricey but the food is awesome. I had the macadamia nut crusted swordfish. Mmmm. I'm not even a big seafood person. We had a wonderful dinner and then went and had a few drinks after. I love that after this long we can still sit for hours talking. It is so easy for me to imagine our future. One thing that has helped us along the way is that our dreams continue to be the same. So many young couple grow apart...but we grew together. We really want the same things out of life. I know that when we are 70 and 72, after a day of photography or painting for me and a day of fishing or golfing for him, we will sit on our front porch hand in hand.

For now we are making the most out of the time we have. Our family is precious and we are fully aware of that. Right now I have everything I ever dreamed of. My prince, 3 perfect boys and a life of opportunity. And it has just begun ;)